If It's Harmless, It's Not Fun !

I once met a friend who commented on my life with pet, "Oh, it takes a lot of effort, money, and time, right? Such dedication!" 
Sure, it's not a breezy easy task to own a cat--just like you have a baby, no offense, please, 
I see cat and infant at the same level of worth. It costs. Moreover, if you're a caring cat/dog lady, you're going to have an intention to bring your four-legged kid to the doctor for a checkup and parasite control. And I'm not kidding, but spaying/neutering your darling isn't very facile.  Especially in the postsurgery proccess. And yeah, sometimes cat messes up with your couch. 

And, oy, we also have people who thinks that being a musician is just performing beautifully but live the rest of your life in leisure. Nah, the reality is, you spend so many time practicing until your fingers get hurt and painful and your last lunch becomes meaningless. However, you're satisfied and you're progressing somewhere. You enjoy the beautiful sound you finally produce. 

What about going minimalist? EH. It's not  a cinch. It's not just getting rid of all your stuff altogether and, voilà, your house's clean. Not if you're living with your 50s generation parents. AND, you yourself won't solve your clutter puzzle instantly. No one do. You shall go through the ups and downs. You will let go but cry for losing at the same time. Yeah. 

 Getting inside a friendship or a group of friends, a relationship, and such, it's not just as fun as the Instagram posts! You laugh with your circle in the photographs, but behind, you guys have gone through a lot together, you may have an argument, a fight, anything could happen between the development of different persons' harmonization. In actuality, you're not collecting your broken pieces at all in a friendship or relationship. It's rather about playing 10000 pieces jigsaw puzzle of abstract painting together and laugh at our faults (with belief that somehow we're going to reach the full picture)! 

As the musical philosophy prove: music is built by the harmonic progression. It's not just notes. Nor also just an idea. It needs colour tones, it has dynamics. And, yea, it has emotion. Without them, it's not really a music. Even in minimalist music! 

So yeah, do not scared of any scar. You will get it anyway in your life journey. It's not unable to be cured. You'll be healed between the adventure itself. 

Here, Salju and her unbearable cuteness. I'm not sure I regret adopting her. 
It is indeed a challenging task, though, look at her, healthy and quirky! :D 





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